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accepted Does initial 0-3 years of age have any effects for a permanent bonding to happen between the parents and their children?
Feb
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asked What exactly is meant when it is said that only you can make yourself happy?
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accepted What exactly is IQ, and how to develop or improve it?
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comment What exactly is IQ, and how to develop or improve it?
thanks for the great effort.
Oct
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comment How can the mind be trained to accept ongoing mental or emotional suffering?
Okay, thanks, I thought you have missed my comment. I'll be patient. :)
Oct
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comment How can the mind be trained to accept ongoing mental or emotional suffering?
Are you willing to explain this a bit further?
Oct
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comment How can the mind be trained to accept ongoing mental or emotional suffering?
You said: be aware of the thoughts and feelings causing the avoidant behaviours, tap into your values (i.e. for a better marriage, better relationship) and act accordingly to those values. Thus, rather than consumed in mental and physical pleasures - one has the freedom to take a step back and respond to their needs rather than react to ongoing emotional turmoil. Could you be more kind enough to explain this part in somewhat detail and simple english, please.
Oct
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comment How can the mind be trained to accept ongoing mental or emotional suffering?
@ThinksALot It isn't only about you. I've noticed in may other questions that answers are referenced but haven't received many upvotes. :( That's discouraging.
Oct
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comment How can the mind be trained to accept ongoing mental or emotional suffering?
@ThinksALot I do appreciate your effort in the other question, but I need some time to read it and the links in it, "throughly". BTW, I was wondering why no one besides me has upvoted it. You have provided references, so why aren't there many upvotes?
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comment How can the mind be trained to accept ongoing mental or emotional suffering?
@coeus That's a great edit!
Oct
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reviewed Approve suggested edit on How can the mind be trained to accept ongoing mental or emotional suffering?
Oct
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comment How can the mind be trained to accept ongoing mental or emotional suffering?
@coeus If the original question doesn't state this clearly, please edit it.
Oct
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comment How can the mind be trained to accept ongoing mental or emotional suffering?
@coeus Seems I haven't expressed myself clearly. Not a native English speaker am I - will try again: The question is - how to accept that you are not going to get any emotional pleasures like romance and sex, so it is important to live with this fact rather than live in a imaginative world where you dream of having sex with someone else. ----- Am I clear now?
Oct
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comment How can the mind be trained to accept ongoing mental or emotional suffering?
@coeus please read affection as pleasure above.
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comment How can the mind be trained to accept ongoing mental or emotional suffering?
@coeus By mental pleasure, I was referring to the "feeling" of love on the part of your partner, and by physical affection I meant sex resulting out of sheer love.
Oct
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comment How can the mind be trained to accept ongoing mental or emotional suffering?
@ThinksALot I understand your point now. You are saying what I meant to say.